"If you are Proactive, you will immediately stop blaming others!”
Successful people are very, very, very PROACTIVE! They don’t blame others. And they figure out the solutions without expecting others to give them the answers. They don’t have a victim mentality!!!
This is the 1st habit identified by Stephen Covey on how to become an effective person.
If you are effective, you can become successful fast!
Most people, they complain. They complain about the government, about their neighbor, about their bosses, their officemates and they complain about almost everything!
I also complained about everything when I was younger. I have my own perspective of an ideal world!
I imagined a world where people follow rules! And when they didn’t follow, I criticised and complained.
However, after reading this book and learning about being proactive, it changed my mindset! I started to take more initiative!
I slowly stopped complaining.
Instead of complaining, I learned to find solutions. Instead of complaining, I learned to smile and shut up! Instead of complaining and blaming others, I learned to own my mistakes! Instead of waiting for answers, I learned to figure out the answers and don’t expect anyone to feed me the answers.
I learned humility to accept that I made a mistake and learned to solve the problem.
If you don’t have anything good to say, just smile, and shut up!
When you complain, you sound like a victim!
Stop complaining, and be a victor!
Are you a victim or a victor?
Forget about become a victim, be a victor!!!!💪 It’s not easy, but you can do it!
Till next time! 👍
7 Habits of Highly Effective People
"The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People" is a self-help and personal development book written by Stephen R. Covey. It offers a framework for personal and professional effectiveness. Here's a summary of the seven habits: Be Proactive 🔗 Take responsibility for your own actions and behaviors.